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Have you ever dealt with a Christian narcissist?

13.06.2025 03:37

Have you ever dealt with a Christian narcissist?

now when a brother or sister in christ regardless of being your friend, partner or family claims to be a christian you are taught that they share the same values ethics , teachings and you are all on the same page. Ethics , norms, rules ,values wedding vows, none of it this is in their mind something that they actually have to adhere to due to their ego and pathology.

the sad reality is this disorder does not discriminate. Any faith, gender, religion, ethnicity. It is prevalent in the young to the old.

a true christian when they hurt you will make ammends, own it and like any other faith, they will do everything to not repeat that mistake. A narcissist not only doesnt care if they hurt you but manipulates you into believing you had earned whatever you had coming to you and it was always your fault never there’s.

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Here is my personal experience with a covert narc.

so i take answering this a2a with nothing but caution and reverence. A christian is known by his what?

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These are values/norms for you people. Stealing, lies, ommisions, manipulations, affairs, cheating, porn, drug/alcohol abuse all of that is permissable. Even rewardable. It gets you what you want and it works. Sadly though it has natural consequances christian or not. That self destructive appetite is always quick to indulge in but not so easy to be held accountable for. Like i said these things do not actually apply to them only to

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So my brain was very confused with why a christian brother was able to present as being many things , but a true narc is incapable of genuineness, authenticity and is well grounded. Narcs are anything but well grounded and authentic because they dont even know who they are.

i gave my very best for years to a person who gladly recieved , and when i was discarded after the exploitation, it took an immense ammount of soul searching to understand how and why a person who i would have pretty much given him the shirt off my back and realize these folks wear many disguises but in the end you are disposable and they will just tepeat the same antagonistic and purposeful behaviour to the nrxt person. They are broken. They gave in to the depths of there disorder not into adhering to the foundations of there faith . So are they still christians thats not my call but i can clearly state a person of the faith draws to their teachings they arent the actual antithesis of that faith. If they purposefully use and abuse and clearly know the difference in situations then i question your integrity. When you cheat, lie, steal and play mind games… it wasnt just an ignorant one off mistake. You purposefully engaged in this behaviour in clusters of patterns. And noone needs to be betrayed by such one or make justifications or allowances for them.

i will forever have my lense tarnished by giving a disordered person to behave badly while undercthe guide of or claiming to be a christian. That boat sailed. So thats my a2a regarding this question. The bible warms of wolves in sheep clothing and to be vigilent. Its in the old and new testament and through out proverbs. Even jesus said go the other way , you dont need to give your energy or time or gifts to these folks. The church gas lit wives by saying be submissive to your husbands

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the church got a lot wrong on this topic. No one said abuse is to be tolerated. Fools are to be avoided. Pigs dont understand or appreciate pearls. Its biblical.

i was very sad to be conned by a person of the faith. I was decieved, my relationship was held hostage and i was left with s trauma bond. No christian would do this. Its just a disorder that used the cover of faith to be a really bad person. In fact i quoted matt 7:6 in my last dealings i said i am hurt, wounded, disheartened to learn i gave my pearls to a pig (to paraphrase)

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so after 8 years i didcovered how a person can even manipulate faith/religion to fall under your radar , abuse you , discard you and on to the next like preditorial opportunists.

There is great dissonance as to why you look to them for that spiritual bond and understanding that narcs do not bond. There is no fluidity, reciprication or warmth.

kind, patient, loving, slow to anger, forgiving, giving, caring, show wisdom, insight, not selfish or prideful. Etc

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I shared 8 years with someone who claimed to be a christian. Now this is where i have to be transparent but also hesitant to make the appearance of judging. I truly cannot be the judge or one who says who is or isnt a christian.

Well we know narcissists are highly adept at control, manipulation , mirroring, exploiting relationships and using you for narcissistic supply.

a narc adapts to situations, whats needed in the moment, what is needed to groom, blow through your defenses, groom, exlploit, abuse, suck dry, and if you confront them trust me a true narc christisn or not will not become culpable, accountable - and make true ammends.

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became controlled, one sided, it was fraught with tension, they showed no capability of empathy and sought out only to what only benefitted them. The relationship was full of future faking, silent treatment, criticism, judgement, control , outbursts of anger, and any time something such as prayer, deep biblical based discussions and living by jesus teachings were not something we shared no matter my confusion as to why.

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